Monday, December 31, 2007


Well, a new year is upon us.

Time to make a few resolutions and changes.

For starters, no more married men for me - nothing but trouble. Exciting, yes, but stable, no. I think this year I will stick to men who are single and openly gay.

Next, I'm going to try to make a new set of friends. The problem in Manhattan is that its population is very transient; and in 2007 I lost many friends to the West Coast and other worldly ports. Of course, "friends" are a dime a dozen on the island of lost souls, but I'm looking for a new "smart set" to hang out with.

I'm also going to attempt to date again. I mean, it's been five years since my partner died from bladder cancer, so I guess it's time, right? It's hard watching the love-of-your-life waste away in front of your eyes - and I don't think you ever get over it. Last week, while I was in recovery from a minor operation, I kept insisting to anyone who would listen that "Denny was coming to get me", so I guess it's something I live with even in my Ativaned subconscious.

Well, this year I'm going to try to let another man love me - and not just in the biblical sense.

Wish me luck.


riftgirl said...

Woah!!! I've got to grab hold of my britches here! No more married men AND dating? Darling, it's going to be an interesting 2008, indeed. Who knows? Maybe I'll jump the fence and start dating a lesbian. ;-)
Happy New Year, dearest!


yes honey - ol' MM is gonna shoot for the moon this year in every department. in other words, get cracking T-girl!

riftgirl said...

Damn... every time I finally have you out of my hair...

yougnomeme said...

Good luck with the good choices. May you get some better-than good lovin'.